Like the stork, I am in contemplation

Eight years ago I began this blog, and it has been a wondrous journey. I have made fabulous friends, had a great outlet for all my photography, discovered and developed my blogging skills and most importantly gained immense pleasure in sharing with you our Portuguese adventures. Today though I find myself in tears as this might just possibly be the last time I ever post here.

Many of my followers will already know the news, but for those that don’t last month less than two weeks after our return from our winter sojourn Robert died suddenly and unexpectedly at home. He was the driving force behind our Portuguese trips, and without him I just don’t know if a) I can keep blogging about Portugal and b) if I will ever return to Portugal. I hope so, but today less than six weeks after his death I simply don’t know what my future holds.

I wanted though to let everyone know why posts won’t be appearing in the immediate future, and also to share with you the photographs from our last day in Portugal. The morning began with a short birding adventure in the saltpans near our apartment.

Despite the grey skies we were full of joy spending time in the Ria Formosa, before having an even better time with another fabulous lunch at our friend’s restaurant on the other side of town. I took a few shots with my phone on the way back.

It was also a day of contrasts as you can see from galleries. We got caught in a downpour in the morning, but by the afternoon the blue skies had returned. Feels a bit like my life at the moment. Some days are okay, and other days are really hard. It is one of the reasons I am not taking a decision yet about this blog, I just don’t know and want to give myself time and space to contemplate the future.

I really hope I am able to return here as I have many fabulous stories and photographs to share from our last trip together. I also hope to be able to return to Portugal one day, but for now if you want to stay in touch with me check out my other blog – The Life of B.

Author: BeckyB

It had been a good life walking, cooking, photographing, volunteering, blogging, and best of all spending time with MrB, family, & friends. Sadly it no longer is. Suddenly and unexpectedly I have become a widow.

27 thoughts

  1. My heart goes out to you. You have my condolences. The same happened to me a few years ago. I did return to Portugal for winter and I hope you also find a way to return. Gratitude for the time I shared with my loved one helped a lot. I’ve enjoyed your blog and learned much from you. Best wishes. Susan

  2. In time your decision to return or not will feel good to you. Try not to put too much thought into it. Your world is so topsy turvy right now. Sending much love and energy. 😀 😀

  3. Becky, I was greatly saddened by the news of your loss! I have enjoyed all the wonderful places you showed me and your heartfelt comments. I hope that loving memories and peace would find their way to you and time would be kind to you and all you have built together in life.

  4. We are both much saddened by your news and extend our deepest condolences to you.
    Our thoughts go with you and hope to read your interesting blog again soon,accompanied by your super Photos

  5. It will take time Becky, lots of time, but hopefully you’ll feel able to get back to Portugal one day, to revisit the places you love and create some different memories. Like bushboy I will keep my ‘follow’ open in case you do feel able to return to this blog – thinking of you and sending hugs xx

  6. So sorry to learn of your devastating news. I hope you’ll get through this difficult time safely and with happy memories to keep you going.

  7. I shall miss “our” walks and adventures in Portugal. I do hope you can return one day and catch the life that is still there. I shall keep my follow open on here just in case Becky xx

  8. So sorry to hear your sad news. I wish you all the very best for the future. I have loved all of your posts.

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